In the Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant – The #1 national bestseller from the host of the show Iyanla: Fix My Life on the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) that answers. In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want The #1 national bestseller from the host of the show Iyanla: Fix My Life on the Oprah Winfrey. 6 quotes from In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want: ‘You have set standards for how you want to be treated and what you expect from yo.

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This author always provides the most loving shoves and reminders. Every living being wants to experience the light of love.

I think that it has some solid advice that everyone can benefit from. I read this book a while ago. Thanks for telling us about the problem. This book was amazing, it really makes you spend vanznt figuring yourself out as an individual.

This is a book I can see myself picking up again and again when I’m unclear or unsure of life’s trials and tribulations. Let your mind conjure up the best situation it can imagine.

I gave This book was such an easy read and I could really relate to the stories. This book teaches you alot. This is not an attempt at self-analysis. Like working through stages of grief- there are stages, but they don’t necessarily stay in order and you can return to an earlier stage at any time. Jun 24, Susan Burke rated it really liked it.

You are your own completion, your own wholeness. I just recently finished reading this book again and my opinion remains the same. It could very well be that you are repeating what you heard or doing what you saw being done when you were a child. You must realize, however, that love will not argue with you. Once you find love, true self-love, and unconditional love for everyone all the time, things will look, feel, and be a lot better.


I have read and re-read this book many, many times. Relationships bring up our deepest fears. Your mother, bless her heart, and your father, with all of his good intentions, did not prepare you for the meantime.

That ONE story about your life. What do I do to support these beliefs? Iyanla Vanzant is an thought provoking writer with the ability to help you see clearly when you get dust in your eyes.

In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want

I find that I always return to the wisdom of Iyanla’s words – some resonate with me right away and some resonate at different times. The love and appreciation that I feel for Iyanla Vanzant for sharing her stories and her life is immeasureable. This book is very helpful, especially if you are having relationship trouble. Love is our identity.

If you are in the reflecting stages of you life wondering where your relationships went wrong, this is for you. You will have done all you can do, tried all you can try, hurt all you can hurt, given up so many times that love will be the only way in or out. I n the M eantime.

Support yourself by refusing to accept less than you want. In many cases, we keep hurting. Dec 03, Ana rated it really liked it. Open Preview See a Problem?

This does not mean that there is not enough love to go around or that we will never have a deeper experience of love. We go into a relationship looking for love, not realizing that we must bring love with us.


Every living being wants to experience the light of love. Oct 09, April rated it it was amazing Shelves: I liked the message well enough but at one point I just felt like there were other things out there that I preferred reading to this. Place two chairs together facing each another.

Joyful sharing and excitement. A basement dweller may attempt to eat or drink away the misery. Purchasing In the Meantime: In a nutshell it really is about loving yourself. Spending time with her grandchildren and doing her own laundry is what keeps her grounded.

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The windows are so clouded by fear, self-doubt, and inaccurate information that the light of love cannot shine through. Yes, we want to keep our loved ones near to us. At the moment, I’ve lent it on to a fellow friend, telling vwnzant that perhaps it would help him to understand me better, silently planting a seed that it may assist his meanyime as well. The problem is that our windows are dirty! You know exactly what you want in life, but what you want is nowhere in sight.

These expectations, most of which we are totally unaware of, form the inner conflict we experience when we want love in fear. On top of it all, your relationships, particularly your romantic relationships, are failing.

I am not saying that to be dramatic You know where you want to be, but you have no clue how to get there. That’s what growth is all about.